coincidently!

Remaja wanita jangan terjebak sexting elak dimalukan

KANGAR 1 Jun – Raja Muda Perlis, Tuanku Syed Faizuddin Putra Jamalullail mengingatkan golongan remaja terutama kaum wanita tidak terjebak dalam kegiatan merakamkan aksi terlampau sehingga boleh menjejaskan masa depan diri sendiri.

Baginda bertitah, kegiatan sexting yang banyak dirakam melalui telefon yang mempunyai kamera video hanya merugikan mereka terutama apabila disebarkan oleh teman lelaki atau bekas teman lelaki yang tidak bertanggungjawab.

Titah baginda, terdapat kes aksi yang tidak sepatutnya dirakam itu dijadikan bahan ugutan oleh bekas teman lelaki sehingga membawa kepada kesan buruk dan mengaibkan wanita itu sendiri.

”Saya menyeru agar golongan remaja terutama wanita berfikir sedalam-dalamnya bagi mengelak perkara sebegini terjadi.

”Banyak kes yang didapati apabila keterlanjuran itu akhirnya menjerat diri mereka sendiri apabila bekas teman lelaki mengambil kesempatan dengan menyebarkan gambar yang tidak sepatutnya itu ke dalam Internet yang boleh diakses oleh sesiapa sahaja,” titah baginda.

Baginda bertitah demikian pada Majlis Kejohanan Lumba Basikal Wanita Terbuka Perlis di sini hari ini. Raja Puan Muda Perlis, Tuanku Lailatul Shahreen Akashah turut berangkat.

Kejohanan yang pertama kali itu diadakan sempena sambutan Ulang Tahun Keputeraan Raja Perlis, Tuanku Syed Sirajuddin Putra Jamalullail yang ke-66.

Ia turut mendapat penyertaan pasukan dari Vietnam, Laos, Thailand, Kazakhstan dan 13 pasukan dari negeri-negeri seluruh Malaysia.

Raja Muda Perlis bertitah, golongan lelaki yang melakukan perbuatan tersebut termasuk jenayah rogol dan ragut seharusnya tidak menjadikan golongan wanita sebagai mangsa.

”Bagi golongan lelaki, fikirlah dengan matang apakah akan terjadi sekiranya perkara yang sama berlaku kepada emak, adik perempuan, kakak atau saudara perempuan kita sendiri.

”Apakah perasaan kita sekiranya orang yang rapat dengan kita sendiri menjadi mangsa keganasan mereka yang tidak berperikemanusiaan ini,” titah baginda.

18SX

errr…

aku taulah ini soal peribadi.

aku tak berhak campur.

tapi tolonglah! masa semua orang dok busy buat kerja macam nak mampus, ngko dengan segala kejinya dok s3X-talk on the phone. sakan ber-sms sampai tak pandang orang kiri kanan.

bedebah ok?

serious aku geli tahap gaban.

engkau tu orang berkedudukan. kantoi gileeerrrrrrrr!!!!

lain kali, aku nasihatkan kalu nak ber-s3X talk tu, buat ajelah kat rumah. tak payah nak naik syeh kat opis, ok?

now you tell me, how do i talk to you after this knowing that i would never feel the same way, ever again??

shoott!!

policewoman

disclaimer:-
i have NOTHING against policewoman. this is a merely an oppinion which is open for discussion. tolonglah jangan sesapa datang dan tembak saya pulak lepas ni :P

actually tiap2 hari, on the way to work, aku akan passed by some traffic lights yang di’kendali’kan oleh polis2 wanita untuk mengawal traffic.

dan setiap kali aku nampak cik-cik polis ini, aku SIMPATI dengan diaorang. nak-nak kalau masa tu hujan. atau panas terik. dan diaorang tu perempuan. yes you imagine it right. mereka ditengah2 itu mengawal lalu lintas. with all the motorbikers giving them hundreds kind of stares. sabar ajelah.

please. i know very well the strength of a woman. memang. kalau ada determination, sesiapa pun tak kira lelaki atau perempuan, BOLEH buat apa sahaja.

tapi my question is,

PERLUKAH?

perlukah kita melaung-laungkan equality between man and woman sekiranya itu mengharuskan kita buat kerja berat yang sepatutnya tak perlu kita lakukan? kenapa nak bersusah payah kalau kita ada jalan keluar?

honestly, as a mother to 3 girls, kerja2 yang aku tak akan suka anak2 pompuan aku pilih ialah kerja2 yang bersifat maskulin. seperti polis. askar. bomba (eh ada ke bomba pompuan?) and even engineers kot.

again, ini bukan masalah ‘kalau lelaki boleh buat, perempuan pun mesti boleh buat’. tak ada apa yang kita tak boleh buat pun.

adakah kerana minat?
hmm.. minat bagi aku adalah sesuatu yang bersifat idealistik. yang tidak semestinya praktikal.

praktikalnya ialah, kita ialah seorang wanita. dan tak dapat nak disangkal lagi yang memang ada perkara2 yang memang tidak sesuai dengan wanita, sebagaimana ada perkara2 yang memang tidak sesuai dengan lelaki.

jadi, aku tetap rasa kita sepatutnya buat kerja2 yang tidak bertentangan dengan fitrah kita sebagai perempuan. untuk kemeslahatan kita jugak akhirnya.

eh apa aku bebel nih?

oh ya, aku tak nak anak2 aku jadi policewoman dan jaga lalulintas kat traffic light. aku juga taknak mereka terlibat dalam apa2 acara tembak menembak yang boleh mengancam nyawa mereka. tak perlu kot. buatlah kerja lain, nak.

:D

pindah

akak dah pindah.

SINI.

 

sila mampirrrrr!!!

my desktop – breather

tagged by CY!

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the lost – part 4

masa team building tu jugak, kami semua ditest tentang siapa kami sebenarnya.

i want you to try this test:-

PLEASE CLICK HERE

memang agak makan masa. but i recommend this test to be taken thoroughly. what you can do, is to print it out first and do it at your free time. once completed, go back to the website and click your answers on line. kalau tak faham maksud, sila rujuk kamus.

please don’t do it hastily (aka terburu-buru) or it won’t be accurate.

kalau ada dua jawapan yang sama, think of the times when you were very young. what would you feel back then? (remember people change ALL the time!)

then submit your answers. and wait for the result. email will be sent to you.

so you can either be a primer and secunder for any two of below

sanguine. choleric. melancholy. phlegmatic

go back to the website. and print out your strengths and weaknesses.

study them carefully.

 

kenapa aku rasa test ini amat membantu,

kerana ia boleh membantu dalam membuat decision2 penting.

the result defines YOU as person.

you can use all this info to your advantages. apa yang perlu diubah, boleh diubah.

remember,

PEOPLE CHANGE ALL THE TIME. it is called flexing.

me myself, by nature, is Phlegmatic.

but now, with what i do, i’m required to be Sanguine and Choleric.

please be honest with yourself when you do the test.

no type of person is any better than the other.

we are all equal with our own weaknesses and strengths.

JUST USE OUR ESSENCE TO OUR ADVANTAGE, not the other way around.

 

have fun. i hope this helps a bit.

if you happened to be LOST, this might help you to keep on track.

 

the lost – part 3

wow!

i can’t believe how fast the time flies. the story about prof Fatimah, that was about 9 years ago.

ok.

me being a Sanguine, these are SOME of my weaknesses:-

  • Priorities out of order
  • Decides by feelings
  • Easily distracted
  • can i blame my essence for the things that i’ve missed in life?

    apakah itu qada’ dan qadar?

     

    the 3rd person would be the non-other:-

    Datuk Dr Fadzillah Kamsah

    i was working with my 2nd company when i again lost track and get distracted, SIGNIFICANTLY.

    during that complicated state of mind, again, i wrote a lengthy letter. At first, it was just a spur of moment. It was never my intention to sent the letter over to him. But after letting my heart out on that piece of paper. i kept asking myself.

    Why not? Why not send him the letter and just be it. What’s the worse can happened? He will forget as soons as he read it - best case scenario. Or he respond positively – worst case scenario. But i can deal with it later.

    But for now. Send the letter out. Just do it.

    So i did.

    And worst case scenario. His PA called the next week. Saying that DFK granted ME a session with him!

    yes, cold feet and all.

    but like hell i’m letting my cold feet stopping me from meeting him!

    still, i went there with a friend. akak nervous nyah! :P

    we talked for about 3 hours.

    he and his partner, i think.

    at one time, he scrutinized my palm. he told me “you are a natural healer. you heal people. it’s one of your talents”

    and

    “ana, awak ni boleh buat apa sahaja yang awak nak dalam hidup ni. as long as you keep your focus”

    sadly, deep down, I already knew that. my only problem, is keeping my focus.

    i see him quite differently than what appears on TV. he is more the observant type. not at all chatty like i imagined him to be.

    dia suruh aku amalkan solat istikharah selalu.

    seperti yang lain jugak. he just didn’t get it when i told him i just want to switch line.

    of course i can. if i’m willing enough to break the obstacle.

    nothing’s impossible, kan?

    the lost – part 1

    aku baru je habis team building program kat PD 1-3 May 2009. yea.. aku tak cuti pun.

    sesungguhnya, program tu betul2 mengundang kenangan2 lampau disaat2 aku ‘tenggelam’ dan ‘hilang arah’.

    kenangan2 yang menyebabkan penemuan aku dengan insan2 istimewa yang masih lekat dihati sehingga sekarang. errr.. ini tiada kena mengena dengan kebuayaan aku yea.. :P

    did i tell you that i am a complicated person? yes. i am complicated. because half of the time i can’t be sure of what i want in life. until just recently. so i thought it would be an interesting idea to capture my stages of being LOST here in my blog.

    sesungguhnya, aku seorang yang extrovert. i just can’t help myself. i’m a people person. aku lebih selesa berinteraksi dengan manusia daripada dengan mesin-mesin. i’m interested in people more than i’m interested in myself, most of the time.

    jadi, bila sahaja aku habis belajar engineering, aku rasa LOST yang teramat sgt. there i was, confused to my very core. apa yang aku nak jadi dengan segulung ijazah bachelor in engineering (mechanical)? dah tentu aku harus jadi engineer, tak gitu??

    in the earlier years after the graduation, i fought like hell!

    balik2 dari aussie, i confronted my parents about me hating engineering so much. i poured my heart out. i told them i want to do something else. something that i liked! something ‘people’ like political science, international relations, etc. i still remember how my dad’s face fell to the ground. obviously he was really sad knowing the fact that his beloved daughter was not happy with her own choice. he couldn’t comprehend WHY. whatever it was, i knew i’ve hurt them. it was devastating!

    at the end, ayah told me.

    “dik, whatever you want to do. i’ll support you. i just want you to be happy”

    so i did. i applied to further my master in the UIA - master in applied science (political). masa tu one of the requirement is to write an essay on ‘why’ i chose that particular course. and you won’t believe how i actually overstating myself. it was like explaining my whole confused life in that sheets of papers.

    aku rasa disebabkan depa heran dengan essei aku tuh, i was summoned to the Dean’s office. Yes, the Dean himself wanted to speak to me on my application. so we did. and i got in. just like that.

    BUT,

     I TURNED IT DOWN. yea, lepas dapat offer. i turned it down. how LOST was that?

    still, the meeting with the Dean was something that i cherished up until this moment. he was an Arabs. with regal air about him. he was actually startled by the fact that an engineering undergrad wanted to pursue a master in political science. WHY? back then, i wish i was determined enough to stand by my reasons. my reason of BEING.

    apparently, i was not.

    and that continues. with series of many other events. events that defined my confused state of mind.

    announcement

    hapdated:-

    yan, dia keluar macam nih. apa benda ni?

    warning

     

    untuk mereka2 ini:-

    mrsnoba

    rizza

    yan

     

    ketahuilah,

    aku tokleh access blog korang!!!!

    sadis betullah!

    aku try nak load page aje, internet aku terus hanged!

    maka aku frust tak dapat nak menyempil dan bagi komen2 vogue lagik dah!

    dan jugak untuk

    cikfid,

    ya allah slow gile aku nak masuk blog hang. memang aku aje ke atau semua orang pun camtu??

    uwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

    maka,

    silalah rindu kat knv ni yeaa…..

    :`(

    tsk!

    sedih tau!!

    maafkan….

    ….. jika aku jauh dari perfect.

    ….. jika  aku kedengaran laser.

    ….. jika aku cakap something yang orang tak suka nak dengar.

    ….. jika aku perasaan bagus.

    ….. jika aku tidak vogue.

     

    i apologize,

    on each and every pain i have inflicted upon any of you my readers, with my harsh writings.

    anggaplah, aku disini sebagai kakak yang sayangkan adik2nya. boss yang sayangkan pekerja2nya. ibu yang sayangkan anak2nya. apa yang ku kata, tidak selalunya apa yang manis2 sahaja.

    whatever written  here, trust me it was carefully thought off.

    and the most important fact,

    please blame my being an assho*le, simply because

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    i am L.E.O!!!!!!

    LEO – The Boss (July 23 – Aug 22)

    Very organized. Need order in their lives – like being in control. Like boundaries. Tend to take over everything. Bossy. Like to help others. Social and outgoing. Extroverted. Generous, warm-hearted. Sensitive. Creative energy. Full of themselves. Loving. Doing the right thing is important to Leos. Attractive.

    Err… yang kaler biru tu langsung bukan aku okehh!!! Akulah orang yang paling disorganized dimuka bumi ini! Titik.

    Err.. mekasih kat mrsnoba bagi link benda alah nih. lap u bebeh!

    So, maafkan akak deknons!

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